"[F]Clitoral Removal for Tantra Submission Date: 2004-07-01B"
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[F]Clitoral Removal for Tantra

Submission Date: 2004-07-01By: kellyslarkin

[Cliteridectomy]

Why me and my partner both removed our clits.




Clitoral Removal for Tantra

Just a little background on me - my name is Kelly, I'm a grad student, I live with my partner Joanna, and we both have a very unique body modification. We've been together for 5 years now, and I just wanted to share the background on what led up to this.

I'll skip most of the relationship details - after all, this is not a life history. Suffice it to say that after we had been together for some time, Joanna expressed an interest in having her clitoris removed. I was shocked and horrified by the idea, but she seemed to have valid reasons - she is extremely sensitive, and felt too easily overstimulated - plus she has very small labia and her clit was always sticking out, which was uncomfortable (and to her unseemly). We discussed it briefly, decided it was too risky, and she just switched to wearing boxer shorts or loose panties. I never thought it would come up again.

We discovered tantric sex at a workshop around 3 years ago, and plunged totally into it. We never would have believed it was possible for a woman to have a one hour orgasm until we did it ourselves. Anyways, one of the goals in tantra is to delay the onset of orgasm as long as possible, so that the pleasure before (and for women, during) orgasm can be extended indefinitely. Joanna was having some difficulty with this due to her sensitivity, and thus the subject came up again.

This time, looking at things in a new light, it seemed to make sense. Not only would removal of the clitoris solve her problem, but it would allow her to remove the barrier to full tantric sensation by delaying her orgasm. One concern was obviously, perhaps she would not have enough sensation left to reach orgasm, but one of the things tantra teaches you is to take full enjoyment in the sensual pleasures before orgasm - that alone is rewarding, and her usual overstimulated orgasm was not. She was prepared to accept that risk, so after some discussion, we decided to do it, and set a special date for the occasion. We didn't have any problem with equipment, since she was in medical school at the time (and I have access to a lab as well).

The next couple of weeks were extremely powerful for me - I think we both began to get turned on by what we were about to do. I found some pictures of the result online, and not only was it good to know we were not alone, but the smooth look of it was extremely appealing. I'm not sure what caused it, but it caused a powerful desire to rise up in me - it's like an urge that is so consuming, so primal, so immense that it can't be dismissed. I wanted to have it done as well. Crazy, but when you get a desire like this, so radical, so ultimate, you can't turn back. Plus, we could both do it together, and we'd both be assuming the same risks, with an understanding partner.

The operation itself was easy - she gave me a local and let me watch with a mirror - off comes the hood, then a clamp, a couple of cuts, stitches and done. It only took about 15 minutes to clean up, cauterize, and make sure the bleeding stopped. I was able to help her with hers, although, my brave girl, she did the stitching herself. It took a while to heal, like 2-3 weeks, and since it was obviously sore, we decided to take some time off.

Since we knew things would be different, we decided to start slow, almost like starting from the beginning all over again, only this time with tantra. Wow - sex was amazing. Everything takes on new dimensions, and we didn't even try for an orgasm for the first month. When we did, we found it a bit difficult - we could reach the tantric plateau and remain there indefinitely, but neither of us could cross over. Joanna finally crossed over after 6 months (and it's not like we weren't trying), and we were able to give her an extended orgasm. It takes a long time, so we save that for special occasions. Joanna has learned to control her orgasm now, so we can actually get her there fast as well if we're in the mood for a quickie - without the overstimulation as before.

Unfortunately, I wasn't so lucky - this was two years ago, and I still haven't had an orgasm since. It might happen in the future, but I don't think I'll ever have an orgasm again. We've been at it at times for more than 6 hours, and although I can get all the wonderful sensations at plateau, I can't peak anymore. I guess I don't really miss it that much now, since I'm fully tantric, but it can be a bit frustrating at times. I still really really enjoy sex, probably more than most people, but maybe it was a mistake to reduce my sensitivity this much. One side effect of practicing tantra (and not having any orgasms) is that it tends to make you much hornier - which suits our lifestyle fine, but I'm happy just to share in Joanna's pleasure as well.

I guess I would recommend this if you are truly oversensitive, but I would highly recommend that you practice tantra first, so that you become totally aware of your sensations, and can compensate for such a loss if it happens - actually, I would highly recommend to anyone interested to practice tantra as well, but that's not the subject.

Kelly