- Pleasuring Mares: a Guide for Considerate Human Partners
- The following discussion is intended as the beginning of an evolutionary
- document. If you wish contribute, please feel free to submit suggested
- additions, deletions, or corrections. You may note that the goal here is not
- another “how-to mares”, but assumes the reader already knows how to pleasure
- himself with a mare and wishes to try to enhance her experience. In the end,
- this brings more intense pleasure and more willing, even eager, equine partners.
- Also note that horses are as different from one another as humans are, and thus
- anything said in the following pages may not apply to a particular mare.
- This document is written based on experiential information (a labor of love),
- and not a scientific exploration of the subject. Having said that, the
- veterinary establishment has never considered the sexual pleasure that a mare
- derives from mating to be of importance as long as she conceives and produces a
- valuable foal. Only recently have some authors begun recommending against
- hobbling mares (allowing the equivalent of rape by the stallion), on the basis
- that it makes a mare less receptive, more prone to injury, and less likely to
- conceive. It is quite likely, therefore, that if a scientific study was
- undertaken it would find a connection between the mare’s pleasure and her
- likelihood of conceiving.
- What is the basis for such conjecture? Simply put, evolution favors
- characteristics and behaviors that are more likely to allow the individual to
- survive and reproduce. Those characteristics and behaviors that do not
- contribute to the success of the species tend to be diluted and eventually
- disappear. Although the sexual characteristics of mares vary between individuals
- and breeds, it is fair to say that they are capable of very much enjoying the
- sexual act. The proof of this is in the famous Holy Grail of horse zoos, the
- "maregasm". That this phenomenon exists is indisputable to any horse zoo who has
- been lucky enough to induce it in his partner.
- In fact, in researching the subject I found that many veterinary references
- contained diagrams of the mare’s reproductive tract that were grossly
- inaccurate. True, they have the plumbing connected correctly, but the critical
- placement of several items was completely wrong. For example, the cervix is
- often shown in the middle of the end of the vagina as in humans. It is, in fact,
- closer to the bottom of the end of the vagina (for a good reason). The upward
- angle of the vulva is often ignored, and it is shown as being in horizontal
- alignment with the vagina proper. As you will see later in the text, these
- mistakes greatly affect any attempt to understand the actual mechanism of the
- mare’s tract during intercourse. For that reason, I have produced my own crude
- sketches.
- Basics of Horse Mating and Reproduction
- Estrus
- Mares come into Estrus (heat) about every 28 days. Although this cycle can be
- detected all year around, the intensity of the heat is affected strongly by the
- season (more specifically by the amount of daylight). Most mares have their
- first intense heat in early spring, with the intensity diminishing over the
- summer months. With a very few exceptions, mares will only accept stallions
- during their heat cycle which can last from a day to a week, but is most
- commonly about 3 days long. Luckily, they can and will accept human partners
- over a much wider period of their cycles.
- In addition to the seasonal effects, the presence of other horses, especially
- stallions or randy geldings will play a large part in the intensity of a mare’s
- cycle. If stallions or geldings are not present, you can play the part to some
- extent by teasing them in the same way that the stallions do. The longer this is
- practiced, the more effect it will have. This will be discussed under Teasing.
- It is crucial to understand that horses are very social animals and that until
- very recent geological time they were on the dinner menu of many large
- predators. These elements greatly affect the relationship a zoophile may
- experience with them. For example, the act of mounting a mare and clutching her
- rump may trigger the ancient reaction to a lion attempting the same maneuver
- (with very different motives). A stallion’s embrace falls just ahead of the
- pelvic bones and most zoos instinctively learn to use the prominent tips of this
- structure as a convenient grip.
- Because they are a prey species, the sex act in horses has evolved to be an
- extremely brief. From the time a stallion achieves intromission (gets it in), to
- orgasm and withdrawal is typically 10 to 20 seconds. It is critical that the
- mating pair not take too long or they may become easy prey for a carnivore. It
- is also important that the stallion be able to quickly determine that a mare
- will accept him so that he is not unduly distracted from his vigilance.
- Signs of Estrus
- There is nothing subtle about a mare in heat. Her external labia and vulva will
- become engorged and swollen, giving their inside surfaces a bright red
- coloration. Mares also perform the well known “winking” signal when receptive.
- This consists of the vulva contracting vertically forcing it to open, and the
- clitoris protrudes outward and upward. It is important to note that mares also
- wink two to three times after urinating, and not to confuse this with an
- invitation!
- If the mare is in heat, the opening of the vulva exposes the red color of the
- interior. She will frequently squat and produce a stream of fragrant fluid that
- stallions can smell from significant distances.
- Stallions test this odor by making the strange lip curl called a “flemen”. This
- gesture allows the stallion to test the odor using sensors in the roof of his
- mouth. Mares may also push their rumps against trees and fence posts to provide
- some relief from their unrequited lust.
- Fortunately, the mare has also evolved to be an aggressive sexual partner when
- she is in Estrus, with much more staying power than her male counterpart. This
- assures the best chance of getting a quickie from her favorite stud.
- Furthermore, she can actually become more sexually receptive after intercourse
- than before and will often allow several stallions to breed her in rapid
- succession. Dominant stallions will try to prevent this, in order to pass along
- their own genes, but mares are not so picky.
- Although you cannot easily observe it, the cervix becomes enlarged and relaxed.
- This can be felt at the anterior (forward) end of the vagina near the floor.
- Note: Never push your finger into the cervix. If the mare is pregnant, this may
- rupture the waxy "foal plug", and cause her to abort.
- Foreplay
- Another behavior seen in rutting mares is unusual friendliness toward potential
- mates, including humans. This will take on the same characteristics no matter
- whether the target is a man or a stallion. One of the most common gestures is to
- gently nibble at the ankles. Another touching gesture is an embrace in which the
- mare wraps her neck around the person or chest of the horse. Some mares sniff
- the genitals of the potential mate, and despite the differences in posture
- between men and stallions, they know exactly where they are located. In perhaps
- the most overt gesture the mare positions herself in the path of the desired
- suitor and blocks his way with her tail held high and to the side. A mare may
- quickly apply these gestures to a human partner once she learns that he can
- satisfy her needs, but again this varies greatly between mares.
- Mares also respond to foreplay from stallions by either threat kicking or
- showing the receptive behavior previously discussed. Both acceptance and
- rejection are often accompanied by the mare emitting wild squeals. Stallions
- will nibble the mare’s mane near its base, sniff the mare’s mammary area, and
- sniff her vulva. Particularly experienced stallions will even lick the vulva of
- the mare, performing frequent flemen tests on the results. By performing these
- tests he hopes to avoid the punishment of a kick when he tries to mount.
- Foreplay can take some time, especially if a mare is just coming into heat. It
- is important for the zoo to take some time to satisfy this need for the mare.
- Biting the mane (it is far too tough for you to damage it), exchanging breath
- (nostril to nostril), and gently caressing the mare will help set the mood. If
- she is in standing heat, you can easily bypass some of this but the experience
- will be diminished as a result.
- Most mares love oral foreplay. It is highly suggested, however, that this be
- done only after the mare’s vulva has been carefully washed, or the suitor may
- well receive a painful sore throat as the result of bacterial infection. It is
- even possible that the eggs of internal parasites could be ingested causing
- serious health issues (although I have never heard of this occurring). In fact,
- one of the great benefits of being a zoophile is that you can seldom receive
- diseases from nor transfer them to your partner. This fact belies the "health
- threat" that has been used as an argument for outlawing zoophilia for many
- years.
- Anatomy
- Horses and humans have very similar sexual equipment, as opposed to bovines and
- canines. The stallion’s penis is made erect by the infusion of blood just as is
- a man’s. Besides the stallion’s obvious advantage of in size, he has another
- trick. When he begins to climax, the head of his penis becomes grossly enlarged.
- This is referred to as “flaring”. Mares can sense this and react to it by
- further erecting and dilating their cervix to accept the expected sperm. It is
- likely that the purpose of the flare is to block the escape of semen around the
- shaft of the penis, and to force it into the cervix.
- The mare also has several wondrous improvements over her human counterpart. The
- first of these is the wink, described earlier. Not only is this used to attract
- a mate, it also occurs during mating which can be extremely exciting to a human
- partner. In some larger mares the clitoris will actually lift under a man’s
- testicles. The mare also has the ultimate trick of contracting her whole vagina
- almost to the labial lips in a tight, convulsive grip of her mate’s penis. This
- will normally be accompanied by a grunt each time the contraction occurs. This
- is the famous and illusive "maregasm". These enhancements to the standard human
- repertoire make mares incredible sexual partners and lovers.
- As shown in Figure 1 below, the mare’s basic components are the same as for a
- human female. Nature did not stop there. Notice that the cervix and the urethra
- of the stallion’s penis match perfectly. When the stallion’s penis flares, there
- is a thumb-sized recess around the urethra that perfectly matches the mare’s
- cervix. Thus the importance that the cervix stand proud at the proper moment!
- The full thrust of the surge of semen is injected under force into the cervix,
- instead of lying in a pool in the vagina. This cuts down on the long hard swim
- that the sperm must make. If humans had possessed such an efficient reproductive
- tract, it is likely that we would by now have exhausted the last of earth’s
- resources!
- Unless the reader is markedly better endowed that author, it is unlikely that
- his penis can perform this trigger on anything but the most miniature breeds.
- There are, however some ways this can be simulated.
- Making Love to a Mare
- Receptivity
- It bears repeating that all mares are different. In my experience, they break
- down roughly as follows:
- Perhaps one out of ten mares wants nothing to do with a human partner
- Approximately four out of five mares will accept a man when they are in heat,
- without bribes. Half the remainder will accept a man when they are in heat if
- given a treat.
- About two out of three mares will accept a man when not in heat for the
- consideration of a food treat.
- A tenth of all mares will take a trusted human partner at almost anytime,
- regardless of incentive or heat.
- Notice that these categories are not mutually exclusive, so they don’t add up to
- 100%. Also, the figures are based on about 40 mares, so there is a significant
- margin of error. Mares that fall into the last category are truly super zoo
- horses. I have owned two of these, and met several others, and they were
- priceless lovers. You can simply walk up to them, nuzzle a bit, and climb on.
- If you plan to purchase a mare with which you hope to develop a relationship, it
- is a good idea to make the following offer. Tell the seller that you will
- provide a 30% deposit to take the mare in for 2 weeks. If you decide that you
- like her, you will pay the remainder, but if you don’t the seller gets to keep
- the deposit. This allows you time to get to know the mare and decide where she
- fits into the categories above.
- A word about food bribes is warranted here. Horses love grain, but if they are
- allowed to eat too much it can cause them to colic and even die. Never bribe a
- horse with large amounts of grain or sweet feed. Excellent treats include
- alfalfa cubes and carrots. These both contain fiber, and take some time to
- consume. Some mares even accept good quality hay (especially alfalfa) as a
- treat.
- Warming Her Up
- Receptivity can be greatly enhanced, and the likelihood of being seriously
- kicked can be abated, if the mare actually likes you. Time spent grooming her,
- bathing her, sniffing her ears, hugging her, and generally showing affection
- without sexual demands will make her much more receptive to your advances. Never
- attempt to restrain a mare on anything more restrictive than a loose lead line.
- Doing so may cause her to panic and do significant damage to herself, you, and
- the immediate surroundings. I do not believe it possible to rape a mare, and I
- highly condemn anything that resembles force or cohersion.
- If she is in heat, you will want to tease her in the same way a stud does.
- Imitating the "propositioning" grunts of a stallion can help as can mane biting
- and the other techniques mentioned earlier. If a mare does not feel receptive,
- she may make a faint of kicking in the air to tell you so. Watch the ears! They
- are the mare’s mood-ring. If she raises a hind leg in threat or the ears go
- back, or she stomps, these are signs that you better apply more foreplay, or
- give up the idea of mounting her.
- If the mare raises her tail and starts winking, she is interested. Don’t,
- however, assume that she wants to be fingered. As it turns out, a lot of mares
- do not like the feeling of a bony, dry human finger with its sharp fingernail
- being forced into her luxuriantly soft and sensitive tissues. Many mares will
- welcome the human penis, and reject fingering.
- One great substitute for inserting a finger during foreplay is to press the
- fingers flat along one labia lip, and to grind it slowly against the other.
- Thumb insertion is also appreciated more than other fingers. The thumbnail
- should be trimmed close, then the thumb should be held vertically against the
- lips so that it enters in an upward posture. The thumb is then rotated downward
- until it presses on the g-spot. This action can be repeated as long as it gets
- positive reviews from your lover. Note that the tail is an excellent gauge of
- her pleasure. The higher it goes, the better job you are doing. A clamped tail
- is one of the first signs that you are displeasing her.
- Before going further, let me say a word about lubrication. If a mare is in heat,
- she will produce adequate lubrication. At other times, however, you will need a
- lubricant. I have found saliva to be a poor choice in general, and recommend a
- human product such as KY Jelly or "Silk" (a thinner lubricant that does not tend
- to dry and become sticky). Either lubricant will be essential if you plan to use
- your arm at any point, as described later.
- Oral stimulation can be a great lead in, but it can also make a nice
- intermission between intromissions during long sessions. As mentioned before, it
- is important to wash the mare before doing anything that involves penetration.
- This has the following effects:
- Prevention of infection to the human during oral stimulation
- Prevention of infection to the mare caused by introducing fecal matter into the
- vaginal tract.
- Prevention of a gritty feeling that can detract from the fantastic orgasms which
- mares can induce.
- Washing with a soft washcloth soaked in warm soapy water is a terrific stimulant
- to the mare. Both mares and stallions are positively sensitive to moderate heat.
- Washing is the fastest turn on there is for a mare. Even mares that are not in
- estrus will wink and raise their tails when the warm washcloth is pressed
- against their vulva and squeezed to cause the warm water to splash over them.
- When a stallion is probing for entry, he will emit a thin, sperm less ejaculate
- referred to as "pre-cum", the purpose of which appears to be to lubricate the
- external vulva and make entry easier. It is possible that warm water feels like
- this ejaculate. The effect is not lasting, but it is certainly an effective
- technique for introducing other stimulation. Mares have a wonderful, mild “sweet
- hay” smell and flavor, very unlike their human counterparts. Beware, however,
- that they are prone to break wind if you begin to successfully excite them, and
- this can be a real surprise given the position of your nostrils!
- As already mentioned, most mares love oral sex. There are many ways to do this,
- and you need to find the one that your mare likes most. The face-first straight
- up posture with insertion of the tongue is the most obvious and but often the
- least effective. More advanced techniques include putting the lips around the
- clitoris and sucking it into the mouth while caressing it with the tongue.
- Beware that there is sometimes a waxy “bean” under the clitoris and it should be
- removed during cleaning. To stimulate the labia lips, turning the head at an
- angle, inserting the tongue between the lips, then sucking a lip into the mouth
- while stroking its inner surface with the tongue is very popular among many
- mares.
- Intercourse (the fun part)
- Intercourse can be most pleasant for both partners if you do not simply pump
- away until you get your rocks off. Mares enjoy things starting slowly. Some like
- it that way all the way through, while others like fast and furious thrusting
- once things get going. There are up to three distinct stages: passivity,
- arousal, and orgasm.
- The act of entering the vulva appears to be a turn on to mares, and fully
- withdrawing and then plunging back in appear, at least at first, to be well
- received as opposed to shorter strokes. The early part of intercourse should be
- an extension of the foreplay. Even though the mare has allowed your entry, she
- may not be fully turned on, or even turned on at all! She might just be allowing
- you because she likes you, or your bribe, and it is mildly pleasant. The first
- phase is also a way for the zoo to pace himself so as to avoid premature
- ejaculation (an easy thing to have happen in such a wonderful place!).
- As the mare passes from the passive phase to the arousal phase, one of several
- signs will occur. Most mares will begin to elevate their tails. Some, but not
- all, mares will begin to wink on their mate’s penis. Others will wink when he
- fully withdraws. Some mares will push back against their mate. This can be a
- subtle nudge or they may elect to grind their hapless lover into a barn wall! I
- prefer the former, despite the obvious thrill of the latter. These signs can be
- subtle, so it is important to be observant.
- Another sign is detectable in the sound that the penis and vagina generate. A
- mare’s vagina tends to collapse and telescope in on itself when she is not
- aroused. This effectively shortens the passage. In a pony or miniature horse
- this can prevent full penetration even by a human. As the mare becomes excited,
- the vagina will distend and louder sucking noises may occur. If she has been
- given a food treat (bribe), she may stop eating it.
- Another sign is that of funny head gestures. Some mares make biting and nibbling
- motions against any close surface or in the air. They may also swish their lips
- back and forth. Some will begin to bob their heads up and down. The ears will be
- erect and forward. With many mares, this may be the most pleasurable state you
- can reach by intercourse, so enjoy it and make it last. No mare is likely to
- show all these signs, so you must learn the set that your lover uses.
- Now to apply the lesson learned from the diagrams. Since the human penis is not
- capable of triggering the g-spot by its size or length, it is often highly
- effective to either push downward on the base of the penis, or to run a finger
- in along the top of the penis to exert maximum pressure between the head and the
- g-spot. Beware, however, that this also increases your stimulation and may cause
- you to lose control. It is also possible to generate this pressure by pushing
- downward on the external skin between the vulva and the anus.
- Since full size mares are not a tight fit for men, and mares in heat are even
- looser, if you extend intercourse for an extended period, you may find it
- difficult to achieve orgasm. This can be quickly remedied by the old downward
- pressure trick applied for the purpose.
- You will also receive a report card after you have finished doing your best and
- dismounted. After intercourse with a stallion, a mare will almost always squat
- and strain. This act will eject semen that is in the outer vagina, often in an
- incredible splash! For this reason, horse breeders have always believed that the
- mare was harming her chances of conception by this act, and have almost
- universally dictated that she be walked immediately after breeding to prevent
- her from doing this. Common sense says that nature does not encourage acts that
- reduce the chances of conception. Since this act causes a contraction of the
- vagina (similar to maregasm), it is probably intended to force more semen into
- the uterus, and speed that in it along its way, while expelling those sperm that
- were too far away from it to have much chance of fertilizing an egg. Your score
- will often be reflected in the presence and intensity of this straining and
- subsequent winking.
- Again, such things vary from mare to mare, so your score will be relative. Also
- note that she may not display this behavior until you move away for several
- minutes. Having said this, a protracted session of straining and winking after
- your lovemaking is your mare mate's way of saying "you done just like the big
- boys!"
- At this point it needs to be said that there will be days when your equine
- partner may permit you to have intercourse, but she will show little or no
- arousal no matter how hard you try to excite her. On those days she is taking
- you as a favor and there is no shame in accepting the favor. The same situation
- occurs between human couples and this is no different here. Be grateful that she
- likes you enough to do this and just enjoy it.
- Inducing Maregasms
- Do not expect your equine mate to regularly achieve maregasm during normal
- intercourse, even with all of the tricks listed above. The occurrence of
- maregasms in this way is quite low, even under the best circumstances,
- especially in the larger breeds. There are some ways you can give your lover a
- better chance at one, either before, during, or after you have achieved yours.
- The relatively few times that I have experienced a mare orgasming on my penis
- have been when the stimulation was very strong. One technique is to allow a
- stallion to tease her face to face over a partition, while you mount her. This
- is frustrating for the stallion, and if he does a good job, you owe him an
- orgasm too (although this will have to wait for another treatise).
- On larger breeds, the most effective way of providing the mare with an orgasm is
- to use one's arm. I dislike the term "fisting", as this has a violent
- connotation. If a mare is in total heat, she may truly enjoy this simulated
- stallion penis. Be sure that your arm is clean, and that you have removed all
- jewelry. First form a fist and apply flat pressure to the vulva to test her
- reaction. If she raises her tail high, lubricate your arm with KY Jelly or any
- human sexual lubricant. Never use any form of petroleum lubricant or soap as
- this can cause serious injury to the mare. Form your fingers into a cone and
- insert your arm slowly. Watch her signs and if she shows displeasure discontinue
- at once.
- As your hand passes the narrow neck above the g-spot, you will find the vagina
- opens into a luxurious cavern. The walls may appear to be held apart, but if
- this is the case it is because the tract has become filled with air (often by
- the action of pushing the arm in). The softness of the walls is indescribable.
- Form you hand into a fist and make slow, gentle thrusts that if possible end
- with your fist making firm but gentle contact with the forward wall of the
- vagina. You may separate your index and forefingers, and allow the cervix to be
- pushed between them. This simulates the stallion's recess coming into alignment
- and may induce a noticeable reaction on the part of the mare.
- In all of this you should gauge the mare's reaction to determine how to proceed.
- It may also help her to feel the weight of your body on her rump. If straight
- strokes do not induce orgasm, pull your fist back as if to pull it into the neck
- of the vagina, but only until the pressure becomes significant. Then push your
- arm back into the full depth, repeating this as needed. During arming, the mare
- will either orgasm or become satiated, at which time she will pull away. You
- must allow her a breather at this point. In many cases she will move her rump
- back into position for you to repeat the procedure. In this way, it is often
- possible to provide the mare with multiple orgasms in a matter of minutes. My
- personal record for orgasms in one session is seven, but some zoos report much
- higher numbers. When she has had enough, she will let you know using the signs
- already discussed.
- Finally a word about vibrators. Ponies are often too small to use your arm, but
- you would like something larger than your standard equipment. Dildo vibrators
- can be handy in this case, as well as with larger mares. I recommend the soft
- jelly filled, waterproof type. While you are getting ready, leave the vibrator
- or dildo in the bucket of warm water. This will make it feel more like the real
- thing, as mares and stallions are very sensitive to temperature. Before
- inserting it, coat it with your lubricant.
- I have not found vibrators to be a magical turn-on for mares, but at least some
- of them seem to enjoy the feeling. With mares in estrus the vibrator seems to be
- more welcome, and I have known one mare to repeatedly impale herself onto one
- held at the appropriate level. On the other hand, do not expect to use a
- vibrator to make up for the courting and flirting described earlier.
- Finally, remember that becoming accomplished at pleasuring a mare requires
- practice and patience, and the development of a mutual trust with the mare. It
- may take years to get to the point that you really know how to please a
- particular mare, but the journey is pleasant in the extreme. Start with a deep
- respect for the mare and for the great privilege you have in being with her. Do
- not regard her as an object that you own, nor as an "animal" or inferior being,
- but as a very special lady from a different species. If you do this, you will
- find that she is much more aware of your feelings than you would have believed,
- and you can enjoy one of the most pleasurable of all relationships to say
- nothing of some incredible sexual experiences. She will become your true mate.
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