Title:           The Paste bin of disclaimers: >Safe words. you say this, all play stops. thi
Author:          GentleHeaven
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First Edit:      Saturday 29th of December 2012 10:18:08 AM CDT
Last Edit:       Saturday 29th of December 2012 10:18:08 AM CDT

The Paste bin of disclaimers:
 
>Safe words.
you say this, all play stops. this is a word or phrase that you and your partner use.
Don't be a dumb ass who gets them into a situation without a safety net.
Can be anything at all EG: Anonymous is a faggot or Butterflies
 
>Understanding the difference between enjoying punishment and abuse
You done something against the rules? congrats pet your going to be punished for it
You done nothing wrong and are getting hurt? thats abuse, deploy that safety net
 
>Not everyone with "candy" on the internet is a good person
Self explanatory, go with a mate the first time you meet up, god knows your going to need to make sure they ain't a freak before dedicating yourself to their service
 
>Generally being careful with what is the rest of your life
You get one life anon, your not getting another chance at it. do not give it to just anyone with candy and do not waste it.
 
> Insuring that you can both live comfortably with your current owner's situation.
This is a priority, it is extremely unlikely you are going to get to be the pet 24/7 and it is unlikely you are going to be around them for long periods of time. Be ready for this eventuallity
 
>Keeping a lifeline to family / loved ones / people who will sue if you die, in case of emergency and to let them know your still alive.
Just because your ok with going under the radar for weeks on end does not mean friends and family will not realise. keep a facebook, email or snail mail to keep everyone aware that you are fine, last thing you want is a swat team bursting in on your master feeding you from a bowl
if someone says you won't have contact with your family, that's a red flag and you need to drop all lines of contact immedietly
 
>Remembering that you still have needs, and your concerns / issues need to be known and dealt with.
You are not invincible, you are not playing life on god mode, you are not immune to infections
make sure you can care for one another and make sure your basic needs are met:
1) Food and Water
2) A roof over your head and warmth
3) you are safe and mentally and physically sound
Meet these and you are doing well anon
 
Good luck