Title: Purple Tinker's Dirty Laundry Author: Anonymous Pastebin link: http://pastebin.com/sDGp7q68 First Edit: Wednesday 25th of June 2014 01:48:46 AM CDT Last Edit: Wednesday 25th of June 2014 01:48:46 AM CDT From one of Purple Tinker's many exes:   "Jessica is a trip, for real.   Way back when I was a dumb 18 year old (we all were), the internet was becoming a thing, and being the geek I am, I feel into it.  Specifically, the furry fandom. I met (at the time) JohnnyFox, whom is now known as PT/ Jessica / Leah.  Jessica became my First Same-Sex Crush. If only I knew better.   Back then, having a permanent presence on the Internet was a big thing, and Jessica was super important cause she had a co-lo* server she'd hand out access to, for her inner circle.  It made her extremely popular among the furry artist crowd.  This sort of follows the theme of "buying friends".  (*colo=co-location. Building with a bunch of servers and a really fast net connection. twu.net belongs to her. She's desperately tried to keep it out of the limelight, as she wants to use it for real cash.)   I was very young when we first met, still in high school, and Jessica convinced me to run away to live with her after a typical parent/teenager fight. So, I get there, we end up being intimate, and within the first few days, I find out she has a "long distance" internet relationship.  I told Jessica to make a choice, with predictable results.....she decided to keep both of us.  For the next three months, she would bounce between "you are my one true love always" and "We can only be friends, I have a "mate".  Me being star-struck and foolish, I overlook all these warning signs.   Now, in comes "Dr." Aviva Nubel.  Dr. gets airquotes, as she was never a MD, she just held a PhD. Jessica is seeing this woman for gender counseling, and I got dragged along with.  Within one session, Nubel has me diagnosed as transgender, and is urging me to start hormones promptly.  Just to reiterate, I was a dumb, confused 18 year old.  I hadn't even wrapped my mind around accepting being Bisexual yet, and this happened.  It made Jessica happy though, so I agreed.   Three months later, it's December, and Jessica is getting hours cut down at work (obviously because she's an out trans, nothing at all to do with attitude.)  Within 3 days, things went from "intimate partner together for life" to "You're a roommate where's the back rent?"  Did I mention I was a dumb 18 year old high school dropout...in New York?  Obviously the three day job hunt didn't go according to Jessica's plans, and, on Christmas Day, she calls the police department in to remove me.  She'd told them that I was a violent, dangerous threat to others.   Later, Jessica decided that I owed her and her therapist $3500.  Threats were made, passive aggressive dickery ensued, the whole story. Only after I left did I decide to transition.  I got married pre-transition, and PT flipped about THAT too. Did her damned best to get me and spouse split. It took the "pre restraining order" letter from my lawyer/landlord to get her to stop contacting my SO. She still insists that I'm not a 'real' trans person like she is. Quoth PT: "Just because you changed your name doesn't mean you changed it to a FEMALE name. I still doubt you're actually TG."   Jessica has pinned the whole "honesty" of my transition to me sending her cash.  When she found out where I finally ended up living, she contacted all the gender therapists in the area to "warn" them. Same with surgeons.  Every couple months she'll pop up with "you know that money you owe me would be REEEALLY useful now."   So, that's my story with Jessica. I've intentionally left out the "gossipy" portions, for now. She does enough of that idiocy on her own.  She has what me and friends phrase as a "persecution need complex".  She wants to be a part of persecuted groups (trans, furry, brony, homeless, girl geek)...but only in so far as she can be a "hero" to the group. Her entire transition motivation was less about "really being a girl" and more about "Hate being a member of a privileged class (white male)). With rich parents, she has that financial safety net to fall on, just in case shit REALLY hits the fan.  In the time I've known her, she's been autistic. aspergers, trans, ADHD, born-again christian, wiccan, vegetarian, atheist, trans, "mutilated male", MRA (before it was a thing), feminist.....see the trend?   The obsession with rape survivors plays right into her persecution complex. "Rape survivor" is a persecuted class of people, for lack a better term.  She's jealous that she really can't be a survivor, and it bugs her to no end.  There's nothing there for her to swoop in and be a hero for.   OK, so I lied about the gossip, here's a story. She's a hugely proclaimed utter pacifist.  One day, me, her, and a friend took the subway somewhere in NYC. Coming home, she managed to dash out of the subway doors, which promptly closed on me and said friend.  No biggy, couple giggles.  We ride to the next stop, spend 15 minutes throwing pennies at each other and acting the fool, then catch the next train going back.  As I got off the train, she's standing there, beet red and fuming. She walks right up to me, screams 'YOU DID THAT ON PURPOSE!", then punches me square in the face.  Like, balled fist I'mma knock you out punch!  Now, I'm not trying to insult here, but her punches were weak sauce, and I'm still laughing. She stormed off, still screaming obscenities, and locked us out of the apartment until we made a public apology to her, in front of her internet friends in a chat room. Secondly, rumours of her smell are also true. 3 months there, she washed clothing once, bathed once a week tops. Also kept house like a trash hoarder.  Third and finally, no respect at all for privacy. She would go through the admin logs for the MU* games she ran on her server, looking for logs of people cybering, for masturbation fuel.   If nothing else, posting "strawberry lotion is not an appropriate sexual lubricant" will drive her gonzo, and she'll know exactly what it means.   I'm not out to ruin PTs life, per se. She's doing a bang-up job of that all on her lonesome.  As you said, I want potential victims to see just how she acts behind closed doors, so they can make an informed judgement.  One of her "tools" has always been maintaining a level of "you still gotta chance" with her victims, in order to prevent them outing all her dirty laundry.  This, in a way, is me severing that line.   Also, Purple Tinker isn't even a very original transphobic trans person; she got it from a famous furry person she idolized. Furry community had the "original trans-fur" who behaved in the EXACT same way as she does.   One of the BEST ways to tweak her buttons, is to act like you know something about her, but not say it out loud. NOT knowing something spazzes her out worse than anything.   I'd call it sociopathy, but actual sociopaths tend to be much more intelligent and emotionally savvy."   __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________   (From a conversation)   "Ex: Mention failed nose jobs, if needed. And inability to follow surgeon directions....infections et al.   Me: Oh wow, what!?   Ex:  This is mean gossip, but....her inability to follow simple wound care instructions left her unable to have sexual intercourse with men. That's why she became Suddenly Lesbian.   Me: woooah   Ex: Pre-SRS, she was all about men, and getting laid heterosexually. Had surgery. Bitched at me about infections. Suddenly became lesbian. In fact, it was her tease, how she'd let me "try it out" one day. Then suddenly lesbian. I asked when we'd hook up, and she said "never", because "it won't fit".