
| HeinousActsZX #837433 6 months ago |
If that's true, I suggest you see some sort of therapist.
They can help you deal with situations like thhat. |
| Andrewzp #837439 6 months ago |
the only time i've cried since i was in elementary school was the first time i ever saw my dad cry after i heard about the divorce, even though we both knew that it was for the best of everyone's happiness. |
| Andrewzp #837449 6 months ago |
@HeinousActsZX please dont tell me to get therapy. i can honestly say i am OK with the divorce, but what kid is happy to see their parents split up? |
| Medi-shy #837450 6 months ago |
Fun Fact: I got one of my teachers fired because she was such an ass that I had to go through emosional therapy for 3-4 weeks. |
| ZePassionateOne #837456 6 months ago |
Yeah...what Heinous said. If you really feel that bad and you're clinging to a dream, it's time to seek help. |
| Karadros #837499 6 months ago |
Was it your English teacher, Medi? |
| Medi-shy #837508 6 months ago |
Yes, how did you know? |
| marioandsonic #837516 6 months ago |
Come on bronies, show some love for the guy.
Divorce is never an easy thing. |
| Anonymous #837567 6 months ago |
Everyone here is clinging to escapism, don't diss the guy, the world pretty much sucks, you bronies are one of the very few on the planet that are able to enjoy getting on a computer and indulging in your fantasies half the world is living in poverty, nearly a quarter are starving, millions are abused and sold into human trafficking, most of the fucking planet needs fucking therapy. |
| ZePassionateOne #837576 6 months ago |
@Anon567: Point taken, can't deny that. |
| Andrewzp #837590 6 months ago |
how come no one reads all the comments...or the tags for that matter? im the one that posted it, and i said in the third comment, im Ok with the divorce. theyre doing it peacefully.
but in retrospect, i should have said that it was the only thing that kept me from crying at night the week after i found out about it. oh, and thanks mario & anon567. |
| Andrewzp #837592 6 months ago |
ok, disregard the tags part, because apparently, that tag got removed... |
| Medi-shy #837599 6 months ago |
I'll make myself a mental note to donate to charity tomorrow. |
| Andrewzp #837604 6 months ago |
oh, and one last sidenote, its the only thing holding me together because ive been home for winter break when all this is happening, so im essentially trapped with my family, which i can honestly say isnt exactly in a stable state right now because my brother is completely against the idea. |
| ZePassionateOne #837617 6 months ago |
And now I feel like an asshole. Terribly sorry about the recent events with your family. |
| Andrewzp #837666 6 months ago |
@zePassionateOne
its no problem. dont beat yourself up about it. whats done is done in my family, and it could have taken a much worse turn than it actually did. my parents are getting along with each other, and my brother is being less of an ass now that he's had a month to cool down on it. besides, everyone saw the divorce coming along way away, we just didnt expect it to happen when it did. |
| zralf #837801 6 months ago |
going to a psychologist was the best decission i ever made, and i can heartilly reccomed it to anyone i ever met. |
| majob #837983 6 months ago |
As my dad told me: Life sucks, get over it. |
| Mattatatta #839151 6 months ago |
I can't speak from experience, but I can say that holding onto a dream can actually be the best life-preserver for someone. I did have therapy for my own personal issues, regarding my behaviour and overall attitude at school, but I HATED it. The therapist I had to see just upset me every time I went. In the last session I had with her she started prodding about my grandfather's passing (at the time it was still a fairly recent event, but I had already grieved, and just didn't want to talk about it yet), which angered me because I felt she had no right to ask about that. The bitch had isolated me from my parents on that day, and they were waiting outside. I couldn't shout for them, or shout at the therapist, because I KNEW that was what she wanted. She wanted me to explode so that she'd be able to slap a diagnosis on me. I didn't explode, but instead, I completely withdrew and started bawling. My dad was furious when he saw me like that, which ended those sessions.
What I'm trying to say is that my personal experience with therapists has been bad, in the end, the only person who could solve my problems was myself. I eventually rolled my sleeves up and made an effort to be better, I made friends, which in turn gave me people to talk to who aren't trying to crawl around in my head, people I could trust, and I tried harder to ignore bullies and stand up for myself in more acceptable ways. It was no easy going, but it seems that the key moments are when I decided to stop being sad and start being awesome instead, MADE SOME FRIENDS, and found a good method of dealing with jerks. |
| Bernoullis_Principle #1015045 5 months ago |
WELCOME. TO REAL. LIFE. |
| Takashi_0 #1016058 5 months ago |
LOVE AND TOLERANCE AT IT'S FINEST. |