This is a brief guide for the thirty something-single woman. She feels she may be missing out on life. She may feel her biological clock is ticking and she feels she wants to fulfil her natural physiological function by having a baby.
Some of the more erotic and sensual relationships can occur between a much younger man in his late teens or early twenties and a more mature woman in her thirties. They can be more sexually suitable than relationships between couples of similar ages. The young man is at his most potent and is constantly horny. The woman has more experience of life and has more to offer, to the relationship, sexually than an 18-year-old girl.
The woman in question should always take care of her appearance .She should dress alluringly. She should sometimes wear mini skirts so as to draw the attention of young men where she lives. She should ideally take regular exercise and have a good diet. It’s always wise for a woman of childbearing age to take folic acid so as to help prevent the condition known as spina bifida. She should always be grateful when a young man gives her a wolf whistle and respond accordingly by smiling back at him. Indeed she should always have a smile for any young man she meets because he could be a potential partner and father to her children. She should take great care of her teeth and complexion .In ideal circumstances she should always wear a little make up to draw the attention of any young man.
Examples of suitable forms of exercise for a thirty something lady seeking a younger lover are: Cycling, swimming, walking, jogging, aerobics light weight training, pilates and disco dancing. Exercises such as cycling, swimming, disco dancing; walking and other outdoor pursuits could result in the aforementioned lady actually coming into contact with a suitable younger partner.
A younger potential partner may actually physically pursue her, especially late at night. This is more likely if she is wearing suitable clothing, such as hot pants, which give the impression she is available. To give the right impression she should not falsely wear a wedding or engagement ring. This only tends to put potential mates off the pursuit.
In the area where I live young Asian men are particularly attracted to thirty something white ladies. A few of them have actually taken young men as partners and lovers. Once a young man shows interest in you encouragement should be given to the young man to take the relationship further. If he is serious about courting you should spell out a few ground rules; namely that you are a one-man woman. You should lead him on by telling him for the right boy that you will do anything.
After a few dates with your young man he will inevitably want to take things farther. To this extent induce him to see you as a sexual being by displaying posters of the male and female reproductive systems in the bathroom. By doing this the ice between you can be broken and your relationship can then lead on to the next stage; loving and mating.
After you have taken your young man into your home get to know him better by asking about his family. If your boy is Asian he will want to discuss his family and it’s doings with you. Enquire about his brothers and sisters. Ask him if he is an uncle. If he is Asian families are only too willing to invite their young relatives around to see their children; if the children are very young, less than, 12 months old all the better. Show your fondness for any babies in the family by taking the child in your arms and display genuine affection for it. This will instil in your boy’s mind the possibility that you are potential breeding material for him. It will also increase your maternal instincts and lead you to fulfil your biological potential. To this end when the subject of sex comes around indicate to him, whether it is true or not, that you believe in natural sex; that is you prefer to make love without using any form of contraception. This tends to increase a young man’s desire for you. By now, hopefully his family will have accepted you as his new girlfriend. If he is a regular attendee at the local mosque the imam and elders will have had a word with him about converting you to their religion and becoming more than just a girlfriend. If he broaches the subject acquiesce and tell him you have no major objections to whatever he wishes. Such an ambiguous answer will only make him want you more.
Invite your young man around to your relatives. Again if your sisters or brothers have young children take him around to see them. Asian families are very family oriented. Show affection and fondness for your young man whilst you do all of these activities. Let your friends and family see how your relationship is developing. Make it plain to the as well that you would eventually like to settle down and start a family.
Once you have passed this hurdle you can now begin the next stage. Set the scene right and invite your young man around to your house with a group of friends for an informal gathering. All the better if some of your friends are dating younger men as well. If one or more of your friends is also pregnant this is even better. By now you will have been “going out” with your boy for about 4 to 6 weeks. Both of you know the inevitable is about to happen: you and him are about to make love for the first time. It is quite normal and natural you both should feel a little apprehensive about this. Hopefully, if you met your man at a swimming pool, he will have a good idea of what your body looks like. You will also have a good idea how “big he is”. During your little gathering show him lots of affection by occasionally cuddling him. Let him reciprocate by letting him cuddle you. For the occasion it’s probably best to wear a dress that accentuates your curves. Encourage your young man to cuddle you from behind .If he does this he can press himself into your buttocks and you can tell how excited he is. As the evening progresses both of you can feel the sexual tension building up. You know that shortly your young man will be between your thighs for the first time. In preparation for this you should have changed your bedding and placed fresh flowers in strategic places in your bedroom. To enhance the mood it is wise to place at least one large photo on the wall of a mother and baby.
Once your friends have gone you can then both tidy up a little. Then it’s time for bed. By now he should know that he is more than welcome to stay the night. Before your friends departed you will have gone to the bathroom to prepare yourself for your upcoming nuptials.
The first mating session should be a natural culmination of the previous week’s events. It should be seen as the start of a new period in your young man’s life. Take your man by the hand and lead him upstairs. If you and him have been flirting with each other all-night he should be as willing to mate with you as you are to mate with him. Upon arrival in the bedroom you should pull the curtains to with your young man in full view. This indicates to any prying eyes you are about to take a new lover. If you are feeling a little bit reckless and you like the idea of people watching you let your new man undress you in full view of any voyeuristic neighbours. After you are both naked you may close the curtains if you wish. By now your young man and yourself will be fully charged and sexed up. If he is well endowed, like my young Asian man, this will be more gratifying for you both. In preparation for your imminent mating you should have been gently playing with yourself over the past few weeks whilst thinking about your boy.
Low lighting is a definite turn on for both partners the first time they come together and mate. I know it was for my young man and me. Now as woman and boy approach the bed the sexual tension will almost be palpable. Continue to kiss your partner and gently press yourself against him. His erect penis will almost certainly be pressing against your abdomen. Gently ease down onto the bed whilst still kissing and caressing him all over. Your nipples and clitoris will by now be fully engorged and erect. Your young man’s circumcised penis may even show signs of pre cum oozing from the urethral opening. Gently lay down on the bed and open yourself up for your first mating with him. You shouldn’t require any lubrication for penetration to occur. However it’s always wise to keep a tube of KY jelly in the bedside cabinet along with condoms or cervical cap or diaphragm. By now both you and your partner have gone beyond the point of no return and mating will ensue. Just lay back and ease your new lover into your now waiting and wanton body. Remember what is now happening is the natural culmination of the process that first began when you first met each other. You are the Eve to his Adam.
If, like me, you have been waiting with eager anticipation all day for this event to occur you will be in heaven. If it is your fertile time and reason has gone out of the window you may always use the morning after pill so should you wish? However be aware a woman’s natural function is to mate with and ultimately bear her partner’s offspring. By now you and your partner will be complementing each other by thrusting in unison. The first time he may be a little too eager and ejaculate his seed into you before you have reached a climax. This is only a temporary setback as in any subsequent matings you and him will become more familiar with each other’s bodies and with each other’s desires. Your love session may last well into the small hours before you both fall asleep in each other’s arms. You may well end up losing track of time the first time you and your new mate are together. After the first few times hopefully you have both learnt to give and receive pleasure from each other. For the next few days you and your new lover may well be inseparable from each other. If this is the case every time you are alone together you will want to make love with him and feel him ejaculate his life giving seed inside you. If your partner is a different ethnicity from you, you may marvel at the wonder of the difference in your skin tones. If you have a fertile enough imagination you may wonder what a child would look like from such a union.
After a few weeks you and your new love may want to spice up your new found love life by experimenting and making love in different positions and in different places. It is such a turn on to go home at lunchtime and have your new love sneak up to you and take you from behind, it was for me. I loved it the first time Javed came up behind me and lifted my dress up and pulled my tights and panties down and mated with me from behind.
As time goes by you and your partner will become more familiar with what you can do to please each other. As the months go by, if you haven’t fallen pregnant by him, the thought of having children with him may enter your head. If you have been using contraception during your most fertile time you may consider the time is right for you to try for a baby. Again you may try the age-old practice of visiting friends or family with young children to see what your new partner thinks of the idea. If you have fallen for an Asian boy you may well have started to wear Asian women’s clothing so as to make him feel more comfortable with you. Of course babymaking and rearing shouldn’t be taken lightly. You should always decide together whether or not to have a baby. If you feel your maternal clock is ticking and your man agrees to it you can try to get pregnant with him. It can be immense fun trying.
By now if all is well with you and your partner he may well have moved in with you and become an integral part of your life. As you become more accustomed to each other’s ways both of you may well need to make allowances for your partner’s foibles. If, like me, you both feel the time is right then you may want to see how long it takes for your man to make you pregnant. Of course you have a younger man with deep-seated desires and lusts. It’s only natural that he wants to please you and do what is right for you both. He realises he is younger than you are, but not by that much really. There is only eleven years separating you both. Women live longer than men do anyway. Remember the best way to prevent a man from drifting away to look for other women is to keep him happy and provide for his needs. It has to be a two way street and he has to consider your needs and desires also.
If you both feel the time is right there is no other better activity than making a new life together. It is after all only the natural result of all the courting and coupling you and him have done together since the first day you chanced to meet him. The day of your pregnancy mating you will both be aware that now the time is ripe. Your body is at its most fertile and vulnerable time. Your young man is as horny as you are. You want him to breed you. All the time you and him are alone for the next few days you stay coupled long after you both have come. You mate with him with a cushion underneath you so as to facilitate the penetration of his sperms into your uterus. Four or five days later you may be aware of a strange tickling sensation you have never experienced before. This is believed to be the time when your newly conceived baby embeds itself into your uterine wall. You are now pregnant with your first child.
I believe there is no better feeling, for a woman, than to have her young man feel at her growing belly as she prepares herself for bed in the evening. It can be a little awkward making love once your bump gets bigger but it is immense fun trying different methods of lovemaking with your man.
Have to go now baby needs changing. I’m now 3 months pregnant with our second baby. This time I have been on fertility treatment and we hope for twins at least.
I hope in some way that this little article has in some way helped some undecided thirty something woman out there to fulfil her biological function by increasing the world’s population by at least one.
