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{Several months ago, I gave some advice to “happily married” hotwives. Unfortunately not all women are happy with their husbands. So here is my modified counsel for the rest of you.}

OK, many of you have heard about "hot wives," married white women who take black lovers, generally hunky young studs. It sounds sexy but a little scary, too. You have lots of questions and uncertainties and many of you have written to my brother, Homer Vargas for advice. Well, he has asked me to respond because this is something better handled between "us girls." With two grown daughters who so far have given me six dark brown grandchildren, three biracial children of my own by as many black men, and another bun in the oven right now, I've "been there done that."

Probably your first question is "Why should I become a "hot wife?" There are
many reasons but the most important one is, love. You have a husband who loves
you. He may be a little wimpy, but he’s been a good provider and you love him
and want to please him, to make him happy. You think that he might like a
hotwife, but maybe you are not sure that's what he wants you to be. What if he
thinks you are a slut? Put that out of your mind. If your husband loves you,
he wants a hotwife. What he may not want is the consequences of getting what he
wants. But that's a problem for another day.

Love for your husband is not enough, however, to become a hotwife. Although you
may want to please him, it's also a matter of elementary justice. You deserve
to be a hotwife. You have been at his side for years, encouraging him to make
more money, telling him how to dress, pointing out his faults, doing more than
your share of the housework, telling him stories about people he does not know
in endless detail. He should love you above all other women and want you to be
happy. Naturally, his pathetic recent attempts to "make love to you" (when you
need to be FUCKED) with his teeny wienie cannot satisfy you when what you need
is a magnificent black cock and a real man that knows how to use it.

In addition, being a hotwife should be a mater of personal fulfillment. You are
a woman and you want to be the best, the sexiest, the most feminine woman
possible. Becoming a hotwife -- an ever hotter hotwife - for your black lover
will give meaning and purpose to your life, releasing you from self centeredness
and ennui.

Then, too, being a hotwife is a very healthy lifestyle. To become and remain a
hotwife, you will have to exercise daily, watch what you eat, maintain your body
in top form. Dieting and physical fitness will not seem like a chore when you
keep in mind that you are honing your body for your black lover's sexual
gratification. You are his "sex object" and proud of being a damn good one!

But the most important reason is you! You need more sex than hubby can provide.
You need excitement, adventure. You want to feel alive and desirable and
desired by a macho bull that can give you multiple orgasms that make your body
tremble and your senses shiver. And of course the only way to experience this
thrill is by being "taken" by a black man.

Now that you understand the reasons to become a hotwife, the important question
is "how." How do you find and attract a young black lover? First, and this is
almost too elementary to mention but many women miss this point, you need to
show that you want SEX: you want to make love, have sex, fuck, screw, boff,
shag, get it on, "do it" with him every chance he gives you.

Almost more important than the frequency and nastiness (we'll get to that later)
of sex is to make sure your black lover understands that you want sex it because
HE is a macho sexy African god stud. You are not doing him a favor. These are
not the little mercy fucks like you used to allow your husband. You are fucking
him because you can't help yourself. You are insane with lust. He turns you
on. He makes you want sex. He makes you NEED sex! You are a sex slave to his
black cock!

Now let's talk about what kind of sex to have with your lover starting with what
kind not to have. It will NOT be the kind you had with your husband: once a
week (if he was lucky) in the bedroom, missionary position, lights out, "think
of England" while he squirted his watery seed in you. No! Your black lover
makes you burn with such lust that you will want him to take you in the back
seats of taxis, in nightclub washrooms, in dark corners at parties, in parking
garage stairwells, seedy tenements, where you work. At your husband's home, you
will want it on the living room rug, on the dining table, bending over in the
kitchen, draped over the back of the sofa in the family room, in the shower and
especially in the bed where your husband used to sleep.

You enjoy having your lover eat your pussy if he so chooses, although you would
never allow your husband to have that pleasure. But you have an almost
irresistible desire to suck and worship his cock. (You swallow greedily,
although some inevitably drools out of your mouth.) I say "almost" because even
for a bull, every load of cum in your mouth is one less in your needy pussy.
With your lover, you are multi-orgasmic, although you never let yourself go with
your husband. Your lover's black cock in your white pussy makes you a moaner
and a groaner and a squealer and a screamer when you orgasm. You claw his back
in ecstasy. You like it doggie style, riding his cock, legs bent behind your
head or heels (6" stilettos) in the air. He can call you every filthy name in
the book if it gets you a harder cock and a more cum pumped into your hungry
pussy. Your performance will put every porn movie ever made to shame.

Because you so desperately want your lover to fuck you all the time, you will do
whatever it takes to excite him, to entice him, to make him want to put his
marvelous cock in you. This means taking the initiative, seducing him! (But
you must never be demanding; a black stud has other white wives to service and
it is HIS prerogative whom he fucks and when!) You will want to wear all that
sexy nightwear and scandalous casual wear your husband gave you to signal your
constant horniness for your new lover. Seldom is total nudity best. Always
keep on a necklace, bracelets, and your heels during sex. Cleanliness is good
and perfume is great, but never wash off the womanly scent of an aroused pussy.
Be proud of how wet he makes you and put up with the mess.

Of course you do not stop being a hotwife when your lover is not around. A true
hotwife would not be able to go through the long periods her lover is off
fucking other women, if she did not have toys to keep her sane. Large back
dildos and vibrators will keep you simmering and ready for his return.
Masturbation is also important to help you become or remain multi-orgasmic. And
of course he likes to know that while he is away, you are missing him so badly
you need a large cylindrical black object up your twat.

Now the next point is not for everyone and not absolutely necessary to be a
hotwife, but many hotwives become strongly bi. Girl/girl sex, maybe with
another of your lover’s girlfriends, is a great way to pass the long lonely days
when your lover is off taking care of other women in his harem, but it is also a
great way to bring other white wives into your lover's web. I have found
nothing pleases my lover more than seeing me with my tongue in the pussy of a
little unblacked honey, making her so horny she’ll do anything for her next cum.
In a flash he is in bed with his cock rammed in her pussy and –boom -- one more
little white wife had been made a slave to black sex.

So far we have discussed what you need to do in private. Being a hotwife,
however, is as much or more about how you behave in public as it is about what
you do when you are alone with your lover (or with him and one or two other
women). If there is one golden rule of hotwife public behavior it is: DRESS THE
PART. When you go out, remember you are NOT dressing for yourself. Nor are you
are dressing down any longer for other women as most women are prone to do – who
cares if they think you’re a slut? You are! And you are certainly not dressing
for your husband. You are dressing to attract and please a black lover.

Dressing for a black lover takes more time and work but, take it from me, it
will pay off tremendously in the amount of attention you receive and how it
affects your own "hotwife attitude". You should always keep in mind what the
men you are trying to attract will probably like, but in general follow this
simple rule when choosing what to wear: "Think dress first, skirt second, and
pants only as a last resort." This will be a radical change for many women but
it's important to remember that black men prefer their women in dresses and
skirts, not pants. Dresses and skirts are sexier to black men and they provide
easier access in erotic situations. You never know when you will have the
opportunity to attract that certain man and you need to be dressed for the
opportunity when it comes. The good news is that the hotwife lifestyle will
probably make you feel like dressing up more and the more you wear dresses and
skirts, the more you will find yourself wanting to.

Now I can already hear the objections. "Oh, Evangelina, I could never wear
clothes like that. I'm too [fill in the blank] short, tall, round, thin.
Nonsense, girls! The point is not to find women (skinny supermodels) to make
clothes look sexy; rather it's to have skimpy, reveling clothes to make women
(of all sizes and shapes) look sexy. Believe me, girlfriend, any woman in a
short, tight dress and a top that shows some boobs looks good to a young black
man.

What you wear under your dress or skirt is as important as the outfit itself.
All men love women in sexy lingerie, but black men more so. The colors and
styles you may want wear will vary but in general, here are some suggestions and
rules to follow:

1. Always wear matching or at least coordinated lingerie.

2. Bras should maximize your bust size and display as much cleavage as possible

3. Choose thongs or French cut panties; crotchless are best. Avoid white
cotton unless you are going for the "Catholic Schoolgirl" look. If you are with
men who know you, no panties is the best option.

4. Always wear hosiery. High tops and thigh highs are great for casual wear
but stocking held up by corsets or garter belt are best for formal occasion. No
pantyhose. If you are like me before I went black, you probably have worn
pantyhose all your life, but they are death to being a hotwife. It is
practically impossible get fucked on short notice if you are wearing pantyhose.
Black men understand this and detest them. Pantyhose say "I'm off limits" --
not the message you want to send when you are horny for back cock. Besides,
it's pretty difficult even to finger your self or let a black man finger you, in
the damned things. End of sermon. Stockings, however, will make you feel far
sexier and more feminine and they provide your lover an easier access as well as
a sexier view of your pussy. Once you get used to wearing stocking, you will
probably have no trouble giving up pantyhose. Seamed stockings are the ultimate
for attracting black men. You will always get a
lot of attention in clubs and if you dare to wear them in public in the
daytime, men will drool.

The only shoes you should ever wear in public are high heels. This will take
some getting used to as well but black men love them. Three-four inches are
fine for casual entertaining, but try for four-five inches for nights out. High
heel spaghetti strap open-toe sandals are the ultimate "fuck me" shoes.

Jewelry is a must! It should be flashy, designed to attract the attention you
deserve. Earrings should be large, loopy or dangling. Necklaces should draw
black eyes to your heaving bust. Always wear your wedding ring. Black men love
to know they are taking, not just another horny woman, but another (white) man's
wife! Bracelets and rings show you are can be a happy member of your lover's
harem. Anklets and toe rings are clear signs that you are a willing hot wife
looking for a black bull to fuck. A pierced navel makes a sexy statement: "I'll
do anything for sex with a black lover." Long highly polished nails in dark,
daring colors help draw black men's attention to you. And this goes for your
toes in those high-heel sandals.

Hair is also important. You want a hairstyle that is attractive to black men,
not something that is convenient or easy to manage. Generally black men like
longer, straight or wavy blond or red hair. The contrast when he is in public
with an adoring blonde hanging on his arm is all the more striking and draws the
admiration of his friends from the ‘hood. If you are not naturally blonde,
don't worry. Bleaching your hair for your lover (don't let it look "too"
natural) is a wonderful way to show how much you lust for him.

Finally a word on body type. Any "body" can be hot as long as you are neither
anorexic nor seriously obese. In general black men like rounder and fuller
women that white guys, who in turn like rounder and fuller women than other
women do. Before you decided to become a hotwife, you were probably keeping
your weight down because of the opinions of other women, so it's likely you will
need to put on a few pounds. Don't worry about it, even if you are a little too
slim, your lover will probably take it as a challenge to get you into "shape."

Being a hotwife, however, is more than just looks; it's also how you act.

1. In a situation where you are trying to catch a black man's eye; make sure to
make plenty of eye contact with him and smile.

2. Show lots of leg. Cross and uncross your legs and bounce the top leg on the
lower one, perhaps pointing the toe of your shoe. If you find that you are very
attracted to him, eventually let the skirt ride high enough so that he can see
that you are wearing stockings and garters. In clubs a woman wearing stockings
and garters is taken as a sign that she is there to get fucked.

3. Apply and reapply lipstick. Black men want to see signs that you can't wait
to suck cock and lipstick is a great way to send that signal.

4. Never miss the opportunity to drop something and bend over -- from the
waist, never bend your knees. (That's what those expensive sessions in the gym
are for.)

5. Touch and smile.

6. When dancing (probably the closest you can get to having sex in public),
move your lover's hands to your ass and press close to him during slow dances.
If you can feel his cock, he can feel your tits. Don't be shy about letting
everyone see you come on his thick, thrusting finger. With white guys, let them
handle the merchandise, tantalizing them with what they can't have it. Fast
dances give you the opportunity to whirl and twirl and flash your pretty
panties, if you have any, or your pettier pussy if you do not.

7. If a black man puts his hand up your dress; whisper in his ear and ask if
him if he would like you to remove your panties. If he compliments your dress;
tell him you wore it hoping to meet a man like him.

8. Never miss an opportunity to tell him how sexy he is and how sexy and
feminine and wet he makes you feel.

9. Hang on your lover. Rub up against him. Nibble his ear. Gaze at him
adoringly. Demonstrate to onlookers how eager you are for him to fuck you.

10. Do not hesitate to sneak off with your lover to do the dirty during a
public event. Sex in public (except in all black clubs) may not be a good idea,
but it's sexy to be seen scurrying off with your lover, letting everyone see you
can't endure another minute without his big black cock in you.

11. When you leave a social event, make sure everyone knows it's because you
are horny and need your lover to take you out and fuck your little brains out
before you attack someone.

I assume that for financial security, you intend to remain married to your white
husband. Many of the young black me you are likely to meet will have only
menial jobs because of their prison records. He'll expect you to contribute to
support him and his other girlfriends, so he will not want you to leave your
husband. Once you have a black lover, however, it is important to show hubby
his place. You will no longer fuck him regularly, if you ever did. Most
hotwives, angry at years of sexual frustration, will cut him off completely.
Some kind-hearted wives will occasionally give him a mercy fuck if he does
something especially deserving. Of course you will NEVER give your husband a
blowjob, nor will you give him a full tongue kiss. You mouth, (and your ass),
if not your pussy, is reserved exclusively for your lover's black cock. You
should, of course, demand your husband's enthusiastic lip service on your pussy
after it's been pounded by your black lover. Most husband
s come to love this chore and crave to eating the cum of their wife's black
lover from her gushing pussy.

Never dress for your husband the way you do for your lovers. For him, wear
loose trousers, granny panties, and pantyhose with low heels. He needs to know
a woman dresses to please real men; not him. Never miss an opportunity to have
your husband help you get dressed for your lover. Making him buy lingerie or
dresses for you to wear for your lover -- the kind he used to try to get you to
wear for him -- is also a good way to drive him wild. A trip by the three of
you to a specialty shop where you model sexy garments for your black lover while
making your white hubby pay can be a lot of fun.

Make your husband keep your wardrobe in order and rinse out your lingerie.
(He'll spend hours of lonely frustration sniffing the aroma of your pussy juices
mixed with your lover's cum on your panties.) Make him do housework when you
are out with other men. Always tell him how wonderful your lovers are in bed,
how large their cocks are, and how much you enjoy pleasing them.

Call your husband while you are with another man. Make him listen while your
lover ploughs your pussy deep and hard or have your lover tell him all the
things you will do for him that you would never do for your husband.

There are many other issues in how to treat your husband -- should he be allowed
to watch, should he be sissified, etc. -- but I cannot go into all of them here.

All of the above are fundamental to being a hotwife, but there is one thing that
tops it all. Pregnancy! All those sexy things you wear -- skirts, heels,
stocking -- and all the sexy things you do -- dancing, teasing, flashing -- are
twice as exciting when done by a woman with a belly bulging with her black
lover's bastard child. You should realize that having your lover's baby, or
babies, is not an optional part of being a hotwife. You lover WILL want to bred
you. It may not be immediately, but the day will come when he will demand that
your pills be flushed down the toilet, IUD removed, or diaphragm put back in its
box. (He will never have used a condom, anyway.) He will want to fill your
fertile, unprotected pussy with his potent seed. He wants to see you swollen
with his child, your breast filling with milk for the black baby he put in your
tummy. If he had not seen in you the potential to make bi-racial babies for
him, he would never have chosen you.

This is the peak experience for a hotwife, the night your lover makes you
pregnant for the first time! You may be reluctant at first, but it will make no
difference to a young back man. You can’t say no to his massive cock.
Inevitably you will open your legs to black insemination. As his huge back cock
slides into your wet white pussy, all resistance will evaporate.

Even if your lover does not ordinarily like to have your husband around when
he's fucking you, he will probably want him to watch you getting knocked up. He
will want your husband’s acquiescence that his sexy white wife will bear the
offspring of a superior black man. Hubby is going to be changing the diapers
this baby, taking care if him all those nights you are out having fun with your
lover or working on the next one; it's only fair he should get to see you
begging for your lover’s semen, sobbing for him to put his black baby in you.

Once you are pregnant by your black lover, you will want to flaunt it. Start
wearing maternity clothes -- outrageously sexy, revealing maternity clothes --
as soon as the rabbit dies. Some women wear garments saying "Black Baby
Inside," but I think that's a little tacky; people will find out soon enough.
Hint to your friends that you never intended to let a black man get you
pregnant, but <giggle> once he decided to knock you up, you could not refuse to
have his baby. End of discussion. Now of course you are proud and excited to
know you are going to have his black baby. Always say "this black baby" or
refer to it by number, implying that this is just the first or most recent
offspring; your lover may be planning to keep you in maternity clothes until you
are 60. (Unlikely. After three or four babies, he is likely to become tired of
you and move on to breed other white wives. You must accept this and try to
find another, probably younger, lover.)

Hold, pat, and rub your swollen belly at every opportunity. Cultivate a dopey,
fucked-out-of-it expression, especially when your lover takes you out in public,
parading your bulging tummy for all to see and know that the black man at your
side is cuckolding your husband. Tell the wives of your husband's friends how
knowing you are pregnant with your black lover's baby has sent your libido
through the roof. It will get back to their men who will want to shoot
themselves in fear and frustration. And you may be able to recruit some of them
into becoming hotwives, too.

A final word on age. You are never too old to become a hot wife. It's even
more important, in fact, if you have taken a younger man as your lover.
Although your dresses may not be quite as short now as when you were in Jr. High
fucking all the black boys on the football team, the fact that a woman of thirty
five or forty or fifty is besotted with and getting fucked silly by a young
well-hung black stud is hotter than any twenty-year old in full slutwear. And
this goes in spades once he has you pregnant. Imagine your gray-at-the-temples
husband in the middle of a multimillion dollar negotiation when he pleads, "Can
we roll this up pretty soon, TJ? My wife's about to drop her black lover's
third baby and I want go home to see him sent her off to the hospital with her
pussy full of cum for luck!"

Happy hotwifing,

Evangelina