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Okay, let's go. I want to go to the health shop today. I need amaranth again.

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I get constipated by the... honestly, you don't want to know. Let me hook under.

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No, not like that. Your arm has to be on top. It feels wrong this way. I'm not one of your

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guy friends. I'm not one of the boys. If I hate anything, it's when guys call me one of the guys

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or buddy. It's so weird. What is that? You say the strangest things. You know I like it if you're

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manly and I can feel your arm around my shoulder. Let's me feel sheltered and secure.

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Oh, look at that shop window.

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Oh, you don't like that outfit? Of course. Well, I think it looks manly.

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I mean, if you want to dress in that baggy shit all the time, that's your prerogative,

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but you don't look like a real man. No, but you dress very indescript and uninspired.

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What is that? Do you want to tell me you feel like a woman?

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Not either. What does that even mean? What? You wish to be excluded of all gendered expectations?

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What? Huh? How? I'm sorry. I just... I didn't know you thought that way. This is...

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I don't know what to say. Of course we're still friends, and I'm sorry for laughing.

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I mean, but you do look pretty manly. I mean, I'm so sorry. Sorry. Look, I know what I told

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you earlier, but I was just nicking you on to get you to behave and dress more manly.

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Maybe that was a bit shitty of me, now that I really try to think about it.

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I'm sorry. I should have recognized your discomfort and stopped to pursue that angle instead.

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And don't think you're not a real man just because I told you you don't...

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It has nothing to do with me?

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Well, I can't say I fully understand what's happening in your head, but I'm sorry I put some

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expectations on you you... you don't align with. Is it still okay to hook under you?

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I mean, you're so much bigger than I am. Honestly, it just kind of makes more sense.

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Okay, yeah, we can take turns.

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Yeah, yeah, fine. You know, it's your turn today. See? I can make it.

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It's your turn today. See? I can manage. Just as long as you're not one of the guys.

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Because I don't do this to the guys. So when did all this happen? You never told anyone.

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Not being sure yourself. I guess that kind of makes sense.

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I didn't even know there was a third option.

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Don't be silly. I don't see you differently than before.

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You're still that funny, entertaining, charming guy... uh, person?

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Bean? Okay, why not? You're still that bean that is my friend.

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I don't like you just because you're a man. Because I thought you were a man.

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Now, you know, we're all humans. We're all unique. And that's beautiful.

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Do your own thing, and I will be at your side. If you want me to be your partner in crime.

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Yeah, I think he'll say the same. He isn't that shallow either.

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I mean, sometimes he appears to be. But he's really not. He is a rather deep person,

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and I love him for that. Don't tell him I said that.

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Don't tell him I said that. You still... no, I won't say it.

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No, I shouldn't have started with that.

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Okay, but don't hate me for saying that. You know I'm friends with you for how long now?

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Five years? So you know I like you nonetheless.

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But all gender stuff aside, you really could dress better. I don't know.

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You don't like suit-ish outfits. Gotcha. Well, what do you like? And don't say hoodies.

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Mm-hmm. Okay. Okay, I'll tell you what. We're gonna go shopping. You point at stuff that you like.

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I'll go find similar stuff in the same kind of styles, and we'll find what looks good on you.

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We'll do this together. Yeah, of course. What are friends for? But really, it's in my own interest.

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Just like, from a selfish perspective. Okay, let me explain. You might feel comfortable in the

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clothes that you wear because you're inside looking out. However, it's everyone else's problem

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to look at it. Right, right. It's not that bad. Sorry. Sorry, but it is kind of bad.

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Maybe we could try some makeup? Hey, don't look at me like that. Not full on with lipstick and all.

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Not if you don't like it, that is. But some eyeliner could really make your eyes pop.

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Really make your eyes pop. Hey, don't knock it until you try it. Besides, if you don't like it,

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it's easily wiped off. I just want to help you find your style. You made a huge step coming out

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of your comfort zone today by telling me. I really want to be supportive. Sure, we can take him

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shopping too. He'll be ecstatic. Don't worry. Didn't I tell you when we met? You don't get rid of me that easily.